Am I too vindictive?
I am starting to think that I have a bit of a problem with uncontrollable vindictiveness. I think that the main reason for my being this way is that, in all situations of disagreement in which I develop feelings of revenge seeking, I’m firmly convinced that I’m correct and that the other party is not; I resolve to seek justice, and I do not compromise. The thing is, I can’t seem to control myself when I feel this way, and I think that may be something that I should work on.
June 21st, 2008 at 8:09 pm
i am glad you finally realize it,i think i have told you many times,eventho we were fighting a lot,it ends up bad for my feeling.
you should just take things easy,one can not always be right,moreover,most of the things over the world dont have a clear definition well as we all have different living situation,educational background,be thoughtful and try to think in other people’s shoes.
June 22nd, 2008 at 3:30 pm
Meh, as long as you’re right what’s the big deal?